Sylvia Plath’s Marriage With Ted Hughes and the Influence of Failed Marriage on the Life of Sylvia Plath

Introduction:

Sylvia Plath’s marriage with Ted Hughes stands as one of the most intense and influential relationships in modern literary history. They met in 1956 and quickly formed a passionate bond, marked by deep creative exchange as well as emotional volatility. Initially, their marriage appeared mutually supportive, with both poets encouraging each other’s artistic growth.

However, the relationship deteriorated over time, especially after Hughes’s involvement with another woman, leading to their separation in 1962. This personal rupture had a profound impact on Plath’s life and work. The emotional turmoil of the failed marriage is powerfully reflected in her later poetry, particularly in poems from her collection Ariel, where themes of betrayal, anger, identity, and rebirth emerge with striking intensity.

Thus, the breakdown of her marriage not only shaped Plath’s personal life but also became a crucial force behind the raw emotional depth and artistic brilliance that define her final works.

Birth and Family Background:

Sylvia Plath was born on November 21, 1932 at Boston Memorial Hospital, Boston. Her parents were Otto Plath and Aurelia Plath. The Plath were German immigrant to the idle state of America. Sylvia’s father Otto Plath was a German, a man of great learning and expert in Entomology. He had obtained Ph.D. degree in the science of insect and his book Bumble Bee and their Ways was published two years after Sylvia’s birth.

Early Life and Education: 

In 1936-37, Plath’s parents bought a house in Binthrop Massachusetts. From childhood Sylvia took keen interest in her education. Her early education was completed in public school at Binthrop. In her school, she had brilliant result.

Death of Father and Its Impact: 

Otto Plath was confined to bed with a serious disease and died in year 1940. His death is very important event in the life of Sylvia Plath because her imagination was overshadowed by the death of her father. Her first poem and her first drawing were published during 1940-41. It was as its time that Plath’s mother began teaching at a school in the year 1942, the family move to village in Massachusetts. Sylvia joined the Smith College and graduated with distinction in 1944. She was the only student in the school’s history to achieve the highest grade.

Higher Education and Cambridge Life: 

Then she got a Fullbright Scholarship to Cambridge University in England. She joined Newshum College in Cambridge University where she achieved great success. Throughout Cambridge year Plath was in correspondence with her mother. 

Meeting with Ted Hughes:

It was in Cambridge that she came into contact with Ted Hughes. A very famous writer K.R. Majumdar has written on her meeting with Ted Hughes. At this time of her life, when her whole personality was opening up its expectant petals, she met Ted Hughes, the British poet, at a party in Cambridge. This was February 1956. The pretext for the party was the publication of St. Batolph’s Review. This was a publication of thirty old pages containing poems by Ted Hughes. And those were real, powerful, passionate poems of a gifted Englishman who created a revolution by his savage intensity in the realm of insipid, flat and facile poetic style of the general British poets. Both of them were intense personalities, original and restless in their poetic guest. And the quite important fact was, “Hughes was large and alarmingly powerful, both physically and in psychological presence”. So, knowing him, she knew that her search for a perfect mate was over. In a letter to her mother, she said that he was the only man she had met who would be “strong” enough to be her equal. And so, she was happy now in the purest sense of the term. This was just not ‘looking’ happy. Contrary to her previous inanely gushing surface, she was now calmer, more settle, more sure of herself. This chameleon like change, which is the perpetual feature of her personality, might be attributed to the developments and the events that were taking place within her inner self, never leaving her at peace and she, in turn, her readers. Meeting Ted was the unusual experience of which not only she put her friends were also aware. “For the first time since I had known her, she seemed truly happy” says Capp, her friend. “Their relationship seemed calm, quiet and sure……….and over that very short while Sylvia Plath became a different person………at a stroke she become private, serious and seemingly centered.”

Marriage with Ted Hughes:

Plath and Ted, show many things in common. Like her Ted had no money and had come to Cambridge only wife winning higher scholarship. Both of them were extremely fond of poetry. Ted had come from English countryside of which he has intimate experience because of common qualities. Both of them decided to marry and they both married on June 16, in London at Church St. George. The marriage was attended by Mrs. Aurelia Plath.

Secrecy of Marriage and Personality Traits: 

The marriage had to be kept secret due to some Cambridge law which implied that marriage without seeking proper tutorial permission could result into withdrawal of her Fulbright Scholarship. Her righteous indignation on this issue rather surprised her supervisor Dorothea Crook who reminisced that was the only time she perceived, a “passionate rage” in her favourite pupil who was otherwise so very “unassuming” “modest” “self-effacing”. So many lines can be quoted from her personal poetry to self-propounding and authoritatively angry. But then, only overtly self-conscious person can ‘look’ and ‘act’ in perfectly self-effacing way. Naturally, the picture that Crook presents in the one where we see her in the ‘roli of a perfect student. Another point will prove that, while joining Robert Lowell’s poetry classes, she did enwrap her volcanic personality in such a gentle, unassuming garb that Lowell could never guess her extraordinary potential, “I sensed her abashment and distinction and never guessed her later appalling and triumphant fulfilment.”

Honeymoon and Creative Pursuits: 

After marriage they went on honeymoon to Spain. In Spain, Sylvia Plath devoted herself to painting and writing poems. Like her poems her drawings were also immaculate in perfect. She is to illustrate her own poems in the personal pet.

Ted Hughes as a Poet: 

Ted Hughes was also a famous poet in March 1957.

Related Questions with the same topic:

Write a short note on the life and literary achievement of Sylvia Plath. 

Or 

Discuss, how the unfortunate events in the life of Sylvia Plath led to her suicide in 1962.

  

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